I am a firm believer in choice.
(I'm not talking in the political way, I don't really want to get into that here.)
I mean in the way that we go through our life making choices.
Big ones, small ones, ones we don't notice, ones that consume us.
All these choices come together to form a whole.
Our choices cannot be denied or pushed off onto others, because they are wholly and completely ours.
Now to some this may seem a daunting concept.
The idea that we must take responsibility for every little thing we do throughout the day.
I agree.
That's terrifying.
It's also incredibly liberating.
It means that I have the choice to say no.
I have the choice, it is all mine, what I do when.
I got this very simple, but amazing idea, from a nurse at the hospital.
She was talking to a patient, who had come in for something small, but actually had much bigger, chronic medical problems going on.
These were problems he was choosing to ignore.
She took his hand and told him he needed to make his health a priority.
That "make it a priority" is what I love.
It is what reminds me that I choose what is important and what is not.
And that if something is truly important, I will find a way to make it happen.
Because that is my choice.
No comments:
Post a Comment